~ never fall prey to regret ~

Every other one want to believe that existence of endless love is possible...but only few know that love is rare...
similar to any myth..i.e. kinda unpredictable just like life..
when, where and in whome you find it..none knows..
It took turns that people couldn't foresee or even understand and end up with leaving a long trail of regret in its wake...
and nearly always, those regrets gave rise to numerous 'what if' questions that could never be answered...
coz you weren't just someone who was loved back then...in fact you might be their best friend, their best self, their reason for living..crucial like an oxygen to them..and they can't imagine giving that up ever...
but once you left and made a pet out of them..they might had suffocated...choked...nearly died on what you gave them..
you might not understand, but they had given you their best and after you left...if they somehow managed to survive..then be aware nothing will ever remain the same..
be aware love never dies a natural death...It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source..we don't know how to keep going in harmony...and the saddest part is...we don't even bother to take care of its loss..
It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals...it dies of illness and wounds we give each other other the period of time..it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings...but it dies coz of us..we brutally kill it..
in short, its sort of 'once gone, gone forever, phenomena..although people leave all the time...yet as per my understanding love is a lot more fragile than we actually think....
so one should treat their beloved in a way that leaves no regrets...
treat them with love..fairly, and if possible, sincerely...
It's too easy not to make the effort in time, then weep and wring your hands after the person left....and afterwards we start seeing our sins reflected everywhere: in the pallor of our intimates’ faces, in the scratching of tree branches against windows, in the strange movements of everyday objects...these may be messages from God or tricks of the eye, but in neither case are we permitted to ignore them..but to sink deep down in our sea of guilt...regretting for letting it happen...
regrets are futile...a distraction from everything you do to keep going with it... a cruel trickery of the mind to keep you sane to bear the pain..an impotent but consistent raging against something that cannot be changed in any possible way...yet one of the most difficult things to think about in life...
something that happened to you, and you had done the wrong thing in return,,,and for years afterward you wish you had done something different...something better...something that haven't left you where you are now......remember regrets are immortal..they never die unless you give ur life up...
still, the sun is as hot as the one who get over things...and still, life had a way of adding day to day...to make you realize in order to avoid repeating it...
so...go...
go on with life..
listen to ur heart...and never..i repeat.. never let urself fall prey to the haunt of regrets...
live to love...and you shall be saved by God from the pain..
i bet!!