Today is one of the beautiful day
and for me its more beautiful as my dear ones are celebrating the newest yet happiest phase of their life...
Seeing two of my girlfriends Hajra and Sweett Doll cheerishing the one year anniversory of their cinderella wedding at one end made me contended whereas on the other end the unlocking of the most enchanting phase of life 'being engaged' of my chotu sa bhai Anas Ansari left a big ear to ear smile on my face
And i look around seeing people tieing new ties...falling in love...making new promises...celebrating the success of their love...make me wonder that people always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other’s personalities. Who wouldn’t?
Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person...
But what i feel is that’s not the clever trick...
The really clever trick is this: Can you accept the flaws?
Can you look at your partner’s faults honestly and say, ‘I can work around that. I can make something out of it.’?
Because the good stuff is always going to be there, and it’s always going to pretty and sparkly, but the crap underneath can ruin you...
As Einstein said:
'Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.'
and that is something i wish you to be aware of....
to avoid...
to prevent..
Just look at the positive sides
and i know you all are already blessed so why not to always, yes i mean always, seek the radiant sides of your partner..
So that I will be as happy as i'm now in congratulating you all on the celebration of your love even after 100 of years
and i conclude my love, prayers and heartiest wishes for you in the words of Khalil jibran...
'Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow...'
May Allah SWT bless you all with a blessed life, embrace you with happiness and bestow you with His heavely bounties...Forever
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